Gerd

Gerd, gay, 1955
positiv since 2011

Until then everything was clear: I had both of  my feet planted firmly on the ground and I had an idea of ​​how my life was going; I enjoyed myself.  I thought I was well informed, as how to stay safe. Then I felt like I was struck by a bolt of lightning: I was HIV positive! Suddenly everything was different. I was totally in the air. My head was full of too many unanswered questions; I lost my equilibrium.

Although I had twenty years of work in the field of HIV which provided me with theoretical knowledge, the reality felt quite different. The conversations with my HIV positive friends helped me to get solid ground under the feet again. They waded  through the same marsh, sat in a similar dark hole, with no light at the end of the tunnel, and yet managed to get back and enjoying life.

Doubtless life without HIV can be easier. But with HIV it does not have to be difficult, thanks to the therapy! In the meantime, with my HIV infection I sometimes feel like I am in advertisement for tampons that I had seen many years ago: I can do everything with my HIV infection - swimming, sailing, cycling, dancing, etc.

Today I am happily married to a man who is HIV- negative and we fully enjoy all aspects of our life together.

I've found my way to live with my HIV infection. Maybe I can help you to find your way. I am there to speak with you -- as an equal -- as you find your own way to live with your HIV infection.

The buddy contact is without any commitment and free of charge. Since our conversations are confidential, you can talk openly about anything without fear that I will disclose what you tell me to anyone, and you do not need to worry that I will expect that you tell me anything you don't want me to know.

Contact me. I'm looking forward to meeting you.